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I Am Superwoman

When you push out a brand new little person into this world, it’s hard to think of anything else. I try my best not to talk about Byron to anyone/everyone or show photos to people (unless they ask!) because I know how boring mum-talk can be, unless you’re a mum yourself. Even a year down the line though, I find myself talking about his latest little developments and showing pictures of him in just his nappy to my co-workers. Yep, sometimes I’m overtaken by cuteness and I just can’t help myself! And because my life is immersed in Byron, I’ve found it’s so easy to pigeonhole myself and forget who I was pre-baby— because although it’s my most important role, I’m not just a mama.

I am always his mum. His wife. Her sister. Their daughter. A friend.

I am often tired. Happy. Stressed. Indecisive. Covered in some kind of baby gunk. Argumentative. Stubborn. Nostalgic. A control freak. Apprehensive. Shy. Creative. Organised. Logical. A homebody. Sarcastic. Overanalysing. Superwoman!

I like making Byron giggle uncontrollably. Rare steak. Picnics. Driving in the sunshine. Vodka and cranberry. House parties. Cooking. Blogging. Photography. Cold, crunchy chocolate. Going to the zoo. Buying from farm shops. Making jam. Baking cakes. Eating cakes! Date nights with my husband. The USA. Nights in, in front of the TV. Trashy, girly, cheesy films. Pizza crusts with garlic and herb dip. Instagram. Watching my favs on YouTube. New make-up. Perfect brows. Being around friends & family. Planning. Interior design. Being a photographer. Cuddling a snoozing Byron. Cadbury’s Twirls. Rio. Lazy Sundays. Photo-editing. Watching my son grow. Weddings. Fresh air.

I dislike driving without knowing the exact route. Spiders. Being cold. When Byron pulls my hair out! Not having enough sleep. Sitting in traffic. When people let you down at the last minute. ‘Older’ people who are rude and should know better. Hot and sweaty buses. Being late. Sally ear.

(Thanks to Rachel for this post idea!)


Happy Birthday, Byron!

Once you’ve adjusted to life as a mum and you’re over (or have learnt to power through!) the sleepless nights, tired days, constant feeds and nappy changes, your little one suddenly hits their first milestone— and then it’s just a constant barrage of milestones, until… BAM! Hello, first birthday! My baby is a whole year old today! A year. I can’t believe that this time last year, I gave birth. It’s true what they say— they don’t stay babies for long! He’s a little boy now (although, he’ll always be my baby! Even when he’s a middle-aged man.)

He loves: shoveling food into his moosh at a rate that I’m not comfortable with!; playing boo & people making him jump; bananas; holding the packet of babywipes; splashing A LOT in the bath; pulling his socks off; ‘reading’ books; pulling faces; the remote control; driving his toy cars over his head; being tickled!

He doesn’t like: when his meal ends; the person who makes his meal end.

He’s learnt: to say ‘myummyummy’ when I set up his highchair; to rest his head on your chest when you sniff or make a snorting sort of sound— so sympathetic!; to pull himself up to standing; to join in with a giggle when people laugh; & so much that I probably take for granted, every day!

Happy first birthday, B-Bot!


Preparing Your Hospital Bag For The Maternity Ward

My pal Holly is having her baby very soon and asked me for some tips about packing her hospital bag and funnily enough, during a bit of a clear out the other day, I came across the list I used when it came to packing my own a year ago! I thought it might help some of you who are expecting too and have started thinking about yours. I probably did take too much, but I’d take it all again— I’m a “just in case” and “what if” person, so I like to have (almost) everything covered (and I love to be surrounded by my own things— even my handbag is jam-packed with everything but the kitchen sink!) This is essentially a big, long checklist; but don’t worry, it’s not as daunting as it looks!

The Bag
I took a big holdall on wheels (above) for everything for me and baby. I was a bit hesitant at first, as I didn’t want the midwives to think I was coming for a holiday, but a friend of mine who’d given birth in the same hospital nine months before, said she only took a small bag and wished she took more; so I ran with that! And no one batted an eyelid, might I add!

When To Pack
I had my hospital bag (mostly) packed and sitting by the front door from around 36 weeks. Some might say this is too early and tempting fate, but I call it being organised!

For Baby
I kept all the baby bits separate in a change bag, but inside my holdall. I packed the amount I thought (and hoped) I’d need and then added a little extra, as unfortunately you never know how long you’ll have to stay in hospital for! As for clothes sizes, we knew Byron was going to be big (9lb12!) and long (60cm!) so we took a mixture of two sizes just in case. You can adjust accordingly, but if you’re unsure, I’d go for the bigger size as it’s better for their clothes to be a little baggy, than try and squeeze them into something that’s too small!

Nappies | Newborn Size 1 x 1 pack (usually around 30 nappies)
Nappy Cream
Baby Wipes | Look out for wipes that are suitable from birth, as these are better for their sensitive skin
Cotton Wool | Can be used with a little water instead of wipes. Particularly good for that first sticky poo…
Nappy Bags
Vests | Newborn size x 3, 0-3 months x 3
Onesies | Newborn size x 3, 0-3 months x 3
Hats | Newborn size x 2
Cardigan / Jacket | Newborn size x 2
Scratch Mitts | 2 pairs
Socks | 2 pairs
Muslins | 4 pack
Blanket, Teddy Bear etc | Non-essentials, but if there’s something you want them to have from birth then remember it!
Carton of formula & bottle | Even if you’re going to breastfeed, you just never know.
Dummy | Even if you’re a dummy snob now, you might not be when your baby has been crying for 3 hours…
Baby Car Seat | If you’re leaving the hospital by car, make sure this is in that vehicle!
Money | For vending machines and the car park!

For Mum— Before & During Birth
Your hospital notes!
Long Pillow | This is a total luxury, but I found it really useful for getting comfy before birth and also supporting Byron’s head afterwards, when feeding him
Loose Fitting Nightie | I wore mine right up until my epidural, when I had to wear a hospital gown as it has an open back. You might want to bring a spare, in case your waters break on it!
Dressing Gown & Slippers
Lip Balm | All that gas and air can really dry your lips out!
Snacks | Ok, so your hospital will feed you, but it’s important to keep your energy up, so pack some Lucozade and a sweet, sugary snack
iPod | Music can be a good distraction from the pain and help you zone out, as well as cure boredom if you’re in for the long haul! You might also want magazines or books, but to be honest, despite being in for three days, with all the contractions, walking up and down the corridor, visitors and examinations and then a crying little baby, there wasn’t much time to be bored.
Hairbands | If you have long hair
Swimwear | If you’re planning a waterbirth

For Mum— After Birth
Camera! | Or make sure you have your phone charger!
A Button-Up Shirt / Dress / Nightie | Ideal for breastfeeding
Maternity Bras
Maternity Pads | Very unattractive, but very necessary! Your hospital will provide these, but it’s nice to have some of your own if you feel you need to change it, before you’re checked. Thick, night-time sanitary towels are just as good as maternity towels.
Breast Pads | Leaky nips is not a good look.
Knickers, Knickers and More Knickers | The big, granny kind. Don’t bring anything you’ll want to wear again! It’s also an idea to buy them high-waisted, as should you have a c-section, they’ll be much comfier!
Things To Make You Feel Human Again | Shampoo, shower gel, toothbrush and toothpaste, deodorant, hairbrush and even make-up if you want to! I have never EVER felt so disgusting, so these bits are essential to making you feel human again! Unfortunately my epidural hadn’t worn enough for me to be allowed a shower, so I had to have a bed bath and it was HORRENDOUS.
Bath Towel | If you’re able to have a shower, you’ll want a dark colour!
Hand Sanitizer
Going Home Clothes | Think baggy, cosy and comfortable.

It looks like a lot doesn’t it? I promise you though, once you’ve packed it doesn’t look like quite as much and of course you can adjust it to your situation! I know some people like to keep the baby bag in their car until the baby is born.

If you’ve given birth before, do you have any hospital bag hints and tips?


“Bababa. Goity goity! Brrrr. DAD!” & Other Things I Thought I’d Never Say

“Whatchoo doin’? What’s this little face doin’?”
“Byron… No. NO! Get your hand off your willy!”
“Is there a nugget in there?”
“Baba. Baba! Nom nom nom!”
“Can I see a cookie?”
“Get your fingers out of your throat!”
“GIVE MUMMY ALL OF THE KISSES.”
“You’re going to get your head wedged under the sofa, again.”


Video | 50 Random Facts About Me!

I filmed this video last week in Byron’s room, although I’m not convinced I’ll film in there again— yellow walls & my echo-ey voice isn’t too flattering!

I wrote ’101 Random Facts About Me’ a few years ago on this blog as part of another project, but they’ve been safely archived away and hidden now, so this similar tag that’s doing the ’rounds on YouTube, seemed like the perfect opportunity to have a little chat about them again (and apparently pull some funny faces!) Consider the bandwagon well and truly jumped on.