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Sleep Training

I’ve been exceptionally lucky, when it comes to Byron’s sleeping patterns. It only took him until the age of seven weeks, before he decided that sleep is in fact awesome and he’d like some more of it— and so he just decided to sleep through one night. And the one after that. And the next. And so on. I can remember texting my mum after the fifth night and saying something along the lines of

He’s done it again! This is just a phase… right?!

Well, apparently not.

I wish I had some kind of answer for the sleep-deprived, bleary-eyed mothers who ask, “How the hell did you do this?!” because in truth, I just don’t know. There’s a belief that formula-fed babies sleep better, because they’re fuller and also less likely to wake up to want that cuddle with their mama. I only breastfed for the first few weeks and then B was formula-fed, so that could be a part of it, but I guess we’ll never know if that had any effect.

A lot of parents put their child’s sleeping habits down to a great routine— but we’ve never imposed a strict bedtime routine, or any routine for that matter. Perhaps we would have, had Byron not started sleeping through the night so early, but I think we were both probably a bit too worried about upsetting this routine he’d set himself and we didn’t want to risk the 2am and 4am feeds again! After a while, it seemed like he was getting tired at around the same time every evening, so we put him to bed at 8:30pm and we still do. I know this probably horrifies some parents— and I know I get some odd looks when I turn up at the supermarket at 7:30pm to grab some milk, with a baby that’s wide awake— but it works for us.

And the same goes for daytime naps; we simply let him sleep when he’s tired. He’s got it down to a morning nap and a longer afternoon one, but the morning z’s are sloping off now, as he gets older and he’s starting to sleep for a little longer through the night. It’s no big deal to him or us if his naps are a little earlier or later than usual. It allows us to sometimes do things that we otherwise wouldn’t.

Now 15 months down the line, we have something that resembles a rough routine, I’ve started to think more about sleep training (especially since reading about Charlotte’s success!) A few months ago, I started to put Byron down in his cot awake for bedtime (he’s usually with us until he’s asleep) using the cry it out technique. It worked to some extent but we failed to do it every single night and soon fell back into a routine of having a cuddle before bed time.

More recently, he’s been getting really clingy with me and won’t settle down with his dad, if he knows I’m in the room. He cries and cries, until I have him, when he just instantly stops! So we’re going to take us both out of the equation and start to put him to bed on his own, before he understands even more what’s happening, grows up and things get even harder. It’ll be nice to not have to be the one to get him to sleep every night and I know he can get himself to sleep, because he does it in the day and he gets himself back to sleep in the night too.

If you’ve done any sleep training with your child, please let me know how it went!

Byron at 15 Months

Excuse me for sounding like a broken record, but 15 months— where has the time gone? I can remember his birth like it was yesterday, although thankfully, the sleepless nights and 2am feeds feel like a lifetime ago. I look back at photos of his scrunched up little newborn face and wonder when he became this expressive little boy, with a grin that’s somehow wider than his face. Pulling faces is one of his favourite things, even if they don’t match his emotions. The Frown is my current fav, as seen in the centre here:

He loves: playing with people’s feet and ankles; poking belly buttons; pulling hair; giving anything/everything a good pat with his hands; saying “nah”; chocolate Philadelphia; short, sharp, high-pitched screams; Tomy squeaky eggs; crawling to the mirror in the hallway to see the bubba; dancing (particular favourites seems to be the Hollyoaks theme tune, The Big Bang Theory theme tune, Marvin Gaye, Luther Vandross and Meshuggah. He’s nothing if not eclectic!); shouting “nummy nummy nnnnaaaa!”; swiping my glasses off my face; growing teeth apparently, as there’s at least 16 in there now (but getting inside that moosh to check, with those sharp fangs, is getting dangerous!); cheese & pickle sandwiches; trying to fathom the clips and buckles that keep him in his highchair; his little Thomas The Tank Engine suitcase full of toys; baked beans on toast.

He doesn’t like: when other people eat and he’s not eating; the bell on his Fisherprice garage; grass— just like his mama when she was a little bean!

He’s learnt to: stand up by himself; get himself to sitting without having to roll over on his front first; be even more awesome.

This little boy is a peg-growin’, hair-pullin’, sofa-cruisin’ dude.

I’m Going To BritMums Live 2013, Are You?

It’s just under four weeks until BritMums Live! 2013:

the UK’s biggest, two-day social media conference and blogger event, where lifestyle bloggers and social influencers gather to meet and socialise, network with brands, improve their skills, and fire their creativity.

…and I’m excited!

You can probably (hopefully!) find out more about me all over my blog rather than just this one post, but BritMums have decided to do a little meme for everyone to introduce themselves, so I thought I’d take part. If you’re going too, please say hello!

That’s my face.

Name: Aimee • Blog: www.aimeemarie.com • Twitter ID: @aimeemariecom

Height: Around 5″10!
Hair: Dark brown and dip-dyed blonde, at the moment! • Eyes: Blue-grey

Is this your first blogging conference? Yes!
Are you attending both days? Yes, although the Saturday is my birthday (that’s dedication for you!), so I may sneak away early!
What are you most looking forward to at BritMums Live 2013? Meeting the bloggers I already talk to and hopefully making some new parent-blogging pals too.
What are you wearing? I have no idea!
What do you hope to gain from BritMums Live 2013? Hints. Tips. Inspiration. New friends. Knowledge. Lots of things!
Tell us one thing about you that not everyone knows: I might seem like a bit of a pop-princess now, but I actually enjoy a bit of metal too and went to loads of gigs in my teens to see bands like The Black Dahlia Murder and The Red Chord. The sound of Funeral For A Friend is very nostalgic for me!

My Favourite Mummy Blogs

The term “mummy blog” or “mummy blogger” is a weird one. Yes, parenthood might be the main focus of these lovely blogs but these women do have other interests too! These are just a fraction of the parent blogs I read daily, but they definitely sit there among my favourites.

More Than Toast
MTT isn’t just adorned with photos of adorable Elfie and cute baby Hux— blogger Alice is also a fantastic, witty and funny writer. She documents life with a child with a rare genetic condition, shares amazing mouth-watering recipes and writes honestly about her personal life. She even edits a magazine and is now writing a book! Phew. Supermum or what?


Write Like No Ones Watching
With posts that detail her sordid love affair with Sleep and describing herself as “a bag of actual vagina-nerves” before her first smear test, it’s no wonder Charlotte’s been shortlisted in the Laugh category of the BiBs— this girl is hilarious! Don’t get me wrong though— she’s not all one-liners and punchlines. If you want heartfelt posts about a mothers love too, then Charl’s your gal!


Mummy Daddy And Me Makes Three
It was Katie’s photographs that I fell in love with first. She’s clearly a very talented and creative woman and I love the way she documents absolutely everything in her families lives! She also has the best bump diary I’ve ever seen (and I’m envious that I didn’t make a bigger effort to do one properly myself!)


Maggie Stone Vintage
Kelle has a great sense of style, that she’s clearly passing down to her toddler daughter, Hattie— she has a better wardrobe than me! Seriously, sometimes I wish they did her outfits in adult sizes. Kelle is also mama to Fraser, a lovely cuddly boy, with a lovely grin!


My Pretty Mummy
I was happy to find out that Emma is actually pretty local to me. She’s the stay-at-home mum (although don’t underestimate how hard she works!) to Alice, who is just a few weeks older than Byron. She posts lots of photos of their life, home and the food they eat, as well as (sometimes random!) videos.

I’m always looking for more parent blogs to read. Please share your favs!

Family Budgeting

Look after the pennies and the pounds will look after themselves.

Never was a truer word spoken!

Sometimes the best way to save a little money, is to start small. We do the best to make the most of our money and still manage to live full lives— just with a smaller price tag! I wrote about some thrifty tips that we use as a family earlier this year, but I think there’s an endless amount of things you can to do save or make a little dosh, whether you’re a parent or not.

Here’s a tip: Don’t let your child eat their clothes. You will have to buy new ones.

Sell Your Junk. Although I don’t do it often, I’ve been known to sell my stuff online before and it’s the easiest, quickest way of making a little extra money, in my opinion— especially if it’s an item or items that you were willing to depart with anyway. A little money is better than no money, it saves space in landfill and it’s true what they say— one man’s trash is another man’s treasure!

Know Your Dates. There’s two kind of date codes you’ll see on food products— use by date and a best before date— and people often get confused between the two. A use by date is the date the food should be consumed by, as it’s deemed dangerous to eat it after this point as potentially harmful bacteria may have grown on or inside the food (even if it looks fine!) A best before date is to do with quality— the manufacturers advise that you eat it before the best before date as this is when it’s at it’s optimum in terms of quality, however you can eat it after this date but it won’t be as fresh. Learn the difference and you may end up throwing less away!

Buy Reduced Products. It’s always worth looking in the reduced sections when you’re doing your food shop, in case there’s a bargain to be had (although don’t buy it just because it’s cheap!) Find out what time your local supermarket do their final reductions for the day, to grab some bits at the best price possible! Even if some food products are going out of date, you could freeze them and save them for later.

Buy Own Brand. I’m no food snob— we always buy supermarket own brand when it comes to the majority of our shop. Often there’s no difference in quality! The same goes for non-foods stuff too— some of my favourite skincare is Boots or Superdrug’s own!

Grow Your Own. If you have the space, grow some of your own favourite fruit and veg. And if you don’t, try growing your own herbs on the windowsill! I always find I waste half a packet of the fresh herbs you can buy, but this way you just pick what you need. It’s so easy (if I can do it, anyone can!) and packets of seeds are very cheap. You could even cheat and buy a plant and just maintain it!

Use Cash Instead of Plastic. It’s so easy (too easy!) to use a debit or credit card when you’re buying something. Actually handing over cash feels like you’re spending money. There have been way too many times that I’ve bought some bits with my card and taken no notice of how much the cashier has told me it’s come to!

Soft Play. Soft play is a bit of a godsend! A quick Google search and you should find an abundance of soft play centres close to you. They’re usually very cheap— especially in comparison to big days out!— and allow you to knacker your child out, while you catch up with other adults. Your local Sure Start Children’s Centre probably has some free activities too, allowing your child to have all the fun, make all the mess and you have none of the clearing up. Win, win!

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