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Old Habits Die Hard

With being snowed in again yesterday, I found myself making yet another header to go with a few recent little font and colour changes I made on the blog recently. I have another little illustration that I was going to add to it, but sometimes simple is best.

I love blog design, as you can probably tell by my constant changes here and there— my brain is overloaded with ideas and inspiration! With that in mind, I’m thinking of doing some custom headers (and possibly WordPress layouts), if anyone is interested? Prices start at £5. Just email me or leave a comment below. Hopefully doing some designs for other people will stop me from altering my own so often! (Famous last words.)


by Aimee Marie on | Filed under Creativity | tags : | 2

Tips, Tools, Thoughts and Things About Blogging

I’ve been making websites and blogging on & off for 8 years or so now (Geocities, Frontpage, splash pages, LiveJournal, anyone?!) and while I may not have the most hits out there, I’ve certainly been doing this long enough to know the difference between (in my opinion) good and bad, and the tools that are out there to help.

001 • Content
Quality content is key. It’s not down to me or anyone else to tell you what you should or shouldn’t write— yes, “My Week In Instagram Photos” or “Glossybox reviews” may have been done over & over again, but they also prove to be hugely popular— but just think, if you’re writing the same thing as everyone else, is that really what you want?! People might not stick around for long if they’ve read the same review elsewhere, a million times already. Find your niche and stick with it— but at the same time, don’t be scared to write about other subjects if you want to, either. My posts about being a mum, aren’t necessarily interesting to those who come here for photography or beauty-related posts, but it keeps a larger percentage of people happy and I enjoy writing about them all, equally. If I can repeat the old adage, “Write about what you want to! Blog for you!” We all go through a period of writers block, but if you don’t have anything to write about at all, then perhaps blogging is not for you.

002 • Sponsored Posts
Here’s the deal. A lot of people don’t like sponsored or featured posts. I’m not too bothered myself— it’s nice to get something back from all the hardwork that bloggers put in and as a reader, if the subject doesn’t interest you, you can easily skip to something you do like. However, if your blog is littered with them, it’s hard to find anything else. Like a needle in a haystack! Try and keep things relevant and tailor it to your blog and readers, so it’s interesting. It’s also best to have some kind of disclaimer (so that your followers don’t feel betrayed!) If you’re contacted by a PR company about something that isn’t suitable for your blog, but you know someone who would love it, refer them to your friend! Hayley and Sarah do this a lot, which is lovely of them. It’s one big, friendly community, after all!

003 • Analytics
If you haven’t got Google Analytics yet, then GET IT. Seriously. You can see exactly where your readers have come from, when they’re reading and what they’re reading, among other things. It’s a really useful tool to help you write about the things your readers want to see.

004 • Design
You shouldn’t judge a book by it’s cover and you probably shouldn’t judge a blog by it’s design— except, we all do. Most people will read blogs through an RSS reader, so you can argue that the design of your blog doesn’t really matter, but it’s all about first impressions. If I visit a blog for the first time and it’s hard to read or there’s a big, ugly font, it puts me off and I’m unlikely to read more posts and subscribe. There are lots of free themes out there and Google is your friend, when it comes to learning about HTML and CSS. I’m completely self-taught! You can also get a great layout for a small fee, from webdesigners that design specifically for blogs, like Gillian.

005 • Get A Diary
It might seem a bit excessive, but a diary will really help you to plan your blog posts. I use mine to write ideas when I’m away from the computer, scribble to do lists and at a glance I can see what posts I need to write, when they’re going up and the type of posts I’ve written that week. I thought I had writers block, but since using a diary, I’ve got more ideas than ever and I’m able to schedule a lot of posts in one go, rather than writing every single day.

006 • Plugins
I can only speak for WordPress, but there are some great plugins out there. My top 5 are: Ajax Comments-Reply (reply to your readers comments and send them an email notification); Akismet (protect your blog from spam); nrelate Related Content (automatically display related content at the end of each post); SEO Smart Links (specify keywords to be linked to certain posts / websites and it’ll do it automatically every time you type them) and WordPress Editorial Calendar (your posts at a glance.) You can install any of these automatically by searching for them under the plugin menu on your dashboard.

007 • Social Media
I’m sure you already have a Twitter account, but if you don’t, sign up now! Twitter is brilliant for interacting with your readers and discovering new blogs. Make sure you have some social media buttons or links on your blog too, so your readers can follow you on Twitter, YouTube & the like! Focusing on the amount of ‘followers’ you have isn’t healthy in my opinion, but Google Friend Connect and Bloglovin’ are great tools to use if you want to know. Also make sure you have a button that links directly to your RSS feed, so people can subscribe easily.

008 • About Page
I’m really nosy and love reading ‘about’ pages, i.e. more info about the blogger. If I find that I have something in common with them, I’m more likely to stick around and read more.

Just enjoy it!
Yes, ultimately you should enjoy blogging! If you’re getting into it because you’ve seen your favourite blogger go from rags to riches and want to replicate it, want free stuff or want to be paid to write straight away, then quit while you’re ahead— a lot of work goes into blogging and you won’t see overnight success! However, if you’ve got a message to spread, love writing and want to be part of a great community, then jump right in!


A Nursery Fit For A King

Our flat is rented, but we are lucky enough to have great landlords who have let us completely do our own thing for the 3 years we’ve been here and are absolutely fine with us decorating, as long as it’s left in neutral tones when we leave! Our contract runs out shortly, but we’ll be renewing it for another year before moving into our own / rented house (with a garden! Outside space! Hooray! Although perhaps not that necessary, given this year’s excuse for a summer.)

With all of that in mind, we’re going to turn the second bedroom (currently my husband’s unused beat lab!) into Byron’s nursery, with furniture that can move with us and grow with him for a while and something that’s also easy to put back in a year or so. It’s always been our plan to get Byron into his own room by around the age of 6 months. And with that being mid-September, time is fast approaching!

His cot is white and we’ve been lucky enough to inherit some other furniture from friends and family that we’re going to upcycle, by rubbing down and painting white too. (I have a thing about white furniture! I love it.) At the moment we have plans for the walls to be painted a soft yellow, so it’s easy to cover-up and it’ll also ensure the room doesn’t feel too cramped. I want lots of bright other bits and pieces though, a lot of which I’m hoping to create myself. If you follow me on Pinterest, you’ll have realised I’ve been pinning a lot of nursery ideas and not much else— it’s the main reason I succumbed to the charms of Pinterest! There’s so much to be inspired by. These are a couple of my favourite rooms and ideas:


Source: goo.gl via Aimee on Pinterest


Source: goo.gl via Aimee on Pinterest


Source: notonthehighstreet.com via Aimee on Pinterest


Source: notonthehighstreet.com via Aimee on Pinterest


Source: goo.gl via Aimee on Pinterest

There are some great blogs full of nursery ideas too:
Belle Bebes
Chic & Cheap Nursery
Project Nursery
The Handmade Home
Room To Bloom

I’m beyond excited to go foraging in charity shops and eBay for items to upcycle, as well as buying cute pieces from Not On The High Street and all the other many, many places on the www to buy nursery bric-a-brac. I will, of course, be blogging about any DIY projects I undertake and the finished product!

Being the nosey person I am, I’d love to see photos of your child’s nursery too!


Illustrated

How cute is this illustration? It was done by my seriously talented school friend, Holly. She’s always been a dab hand at drawing and illustrating. I’m so jealous of people who can draw (accurately) freehand! I’ve edited it a little and placed it on my about page, so it has a permanent little home!

Holly has recently joined the world of blogging with her pal Jess, here, so please say hi, tell them I sent you and subscribe to their blog, if you’re a fan of nail art, illustration, fashion and week-in-photo posts!


The Mighty Moleskine

I’m sure I’m preaching to the converted, when I talk about how amazing Moleskines are, so I won’t bother (although if you don’t know what I’m on about, check ‘em out!) They’re the notebook of choice for creative types all over the world, including my husband— he used them at college when he was studying Fine Art & he still uses them now for song-writing a& ideas, not to mention his Moleskine diary for planning! We’re big old stationery geeks and love the rule on the Moleskine (not too wide!), new pens & generally hoarding notebooks. Yup, we’re sad.

When I started looking for a traditional paper gift for him for our one year anniversary (today!), I knew it had to be a Moleskine. We’re not into massive gestures & agreed it would be more of a little something to mark the occasion. I found lots of craft-types who made covers for notebooks and etched beautiful designs on to them, but they were either hideously expensive or you had to have a big minimum order. I was ready to give up, when I stumbled across MoleskinePress.co.uk. It’s simple & straight to the point! No fuss. £14 (inc. P&P) for a large, hardback notebook with your own message debossed between the elastic & right hand edge of the front cover. Brilliant! The notebook itself retails for £12.50, so it’s a bit of a bargain if you ask me.

If you’re looking for a personalised Moleskine, I’d definitely recommend Moleskine Press. I ordered it at 3pm on Monday & it arrived Tuesday morning. Impressive! I simply went for Ashley’s name on the side (rather than an anniversary message that might look a bit rubbish & potentially embarassing!), so he can actually use it. I now want a set of my own with “Photography”, “Blogging” & similar stuff on the side… I don’t need them, but my god, I want them! Damn you for feeding my addiction Moleskine Press!